Looking For The Middle: The Christian Girl’s Guide to Modern Dating
It‘s Ok for Dating to be Fun!

It‘s Ok for Dating to be Fun!

October 13, 2021

We over-think. We over-complicate. We over-analyze. And in the process we end up looking at dating as a chore rather than a fun experience! It's ok for dating to be fun! Let's put some of that fun back into it.... we've got some tips and ideas for doing just that today.

Backstage Pass: What Can I Do to Make Myself More Attractive to a Girl?

Backstage Pass: What Can I Do to Make Myself More Attractive to a Girl?

October 8, 2021

This was a great question from one of our male listeners! We're taking a look at those intangible things that really up the attractiveness factor outside of someone's looks!

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
What Are You Waiting For?

What Are You Waiting For?

October 6, 2021

If you heard last week's episode, you heard us talk about what it looks like when life doesn't go according to plan and you find yourself in a season of waiting. Today, we're going to take that a step further and look at what to do while you're waiting. We're answering questions like what are you actually waiting for? What's the purpose of waiting? and what to do in the meantime?

When Life Hasn‘t Gone According to Plan

When Life Hasn‘t Gone According to Plan

September 29, 2021

We can all say this to some extent, right? Life never fully goes how we plan and especially when it comes to dating and relationships, we will most likely all find our lives going somewhat differently than we had planned. Does that mean God's forgotten us? Is He still good? What does His Word have to say about the feelings that come along with a life that didn't go according to plan?

CouchCast: When to Bring up Physical Boundaries

CouchCast: When to Bring up Physical Boundaries

September 24, 2021

There's a tricky balance between talking about the deeper, important things and "scaring someone off". A lot of it comes down to timing and how you choose to broach the subject in the first place. So, today, we're taking a look at those things and offering some advice from the times we've had these same conversations. 

What Does Pursuit Look Like?

What Does Pursuit Look Like?

September 22, 2021

This is one of our most requested topics! How do I know a guy's interested? What will he do when he is? Is he pursuing? Is it ok for me to pursue? We get all of these questions on the regular, so today we're breaking down pursuit... what it looks like, what it doesn't, how it looks at different relationship stages, and more!

Dating Advice from Kindergarten

Dating Advice from Kindergarten

September 15, 2021

We're convinced you learned everything you needed to know about dating before you ever left Kindergarten! And today, we're going to walk through the top 10 things on that list... clean up your own mess, use your words, keep your hands to yourself, and more!

Don‘t Date in a Bubble

Don‘t Date in a Bubble

September 10, 2021

It's the second half of "Mantra Week" today and we're rounding things out with Bethany's mantra, "Don't Date in a Bubble". We're going to talk about what it looks like when you are dating in a bubble, what it looks like when you're not dating in a bubble, and what to do if you find yourself in a dating bubble but want to get out.

You Want to be With Someone Who Wants to be With You

You Want to be With Someone Who Wants to be With You

September 8, 2021

Season 7 is here! And we're kicking the season off with "Mantra Week". Over the past few seasons we've both developed what could be called our dating mantras... and if you've been around for a bit, you've for sure heard them! Kristen's is "You want to be with someone who wants to be with you!" So, to kick-off our new season with a bang, we've decided to do an entire episode on each of those mantras. This is going to be fun!

An Online Dating Deep Dive: From A Guy‘s Perspective

An Online Dating Deep Dive: From A Guy‘s Perspective

September 3, 2021

We've reached the end of online dating month! And, we saved the best for last. We can talk all day about how to date online and what to put in your profile and which pictures to use or which ones to not use, but does any of it really matter if it's not what makes an impression on the guys looking at your profile? Not really. So, we went straight to the guys and asked them their thoughts. Here's what we found...

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