Looking For The Middle: The Christian Girl’s Guide to Modern Dating
12 Days of CouchCast: Day 12 - Do I Like Him or is it Just a Crush?

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 12 - Do I Like Him or is it Just a Crush?

December 24, 2021

Merry Christmas!! We have reached our final day of the 12 days of CouchCast and Christmas is tomorrow! We hope you guys are all able to take some time to relax, recharge, and enjoy friends and family. But, before that... we're taking a look at ways to tell between actually liking someone or just having a crush on them. It can be tough to tell the difference at the beginning sometimes so we're going to explore the difference between the two!

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 11 - I‘m Jealous of My Friend and Her New Boyfriend, What Do I Do?

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 11 - I‘m Jealous of My Friend and Her New Boyfriend, What Do I Do?

December 23, 2021

So, your friend just started dating this new guy and he seems great, but now it's opened up this glaring hole in your life and you just want what she has... how do you combat the jealousy and bitterness that you might find creeping in? That's what we're diving into today!

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 10 - When to Bring Up Kids

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 10 - When to Bring Up Kids

December 22, 2021

Well this one can be a doozy! Kids and when to have them can be a pressurized topic sometimes. When is the best time to bring up kids and not seem too "heavy"? What if you don't want to have biological kids?  How do you approach all of these things with the guy you're dating?

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 9 - Why Does the Church Equate Marriage with Spiritual Maturity

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 9 - Why Does the Church Equate Marriage with Spiritual Maturity

December 21, 2021

I bet you guys are all nodding your heads in agreement just after reading that title, aren't you? We sure were! It seems that the church at large holds up marriage as a symbol of spiritual maturity, but is that really even a valid assumption? Why does the church do this? Is it intentional? These are all things we're diving into today!

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 8 - When You‘re the Only Single Person Left at the Holidays

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 8 - When You‘re the Only Single Person Left at the Holidays

December 20, 2021

Does it seem like everyone has someone this Christmas? Do you feel like you're the only person who doesn't? We get it! We're speaking from our plentiful 1st hand experience on this one... things we've done, and are doing, to combat the loneliness and bitterness that threaten around this time of year!

12 Days of CouhCast: Day 7 - Can You Know ”Too Much” About Dating?

12 Days of CouhCast: Day 7 - Can You Know ”Too Much” About Dating?

December 19, 2021

We might be out of a job if talking and thinking about dating is a problem! haha The original question is a good one though.... is it possible to know too much about dating to the point that it is detrimental to your relationships? At it's core, I think this comes down to overthinking... knowing a lot about dating is helpful... overthinking a lot about dating is not. We're going to get into this all more in today's episode!

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 6 - Not Dating in a Bubble When Family Isn‘t Around

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 6 - Not Dating in a Bubble When Family Isn‘t Around

December 18, 2021

Not dating in a bubble can be tough enough as it is... add a toxic or distant family into the mix and it gets even tougher! When you're the only believer in your family and they just don't understand your standards, boundaries, and worldview, it can seem impossible! So, today we're taking a look at some ways to bring community into your relationship when your family isn't your closest community.

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 5 - Moving On When the Guy I Like is Dating Someone Else

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 5 - Moving On When the Guy I Like is Dating Someone Else

December 17, 2021

We've all been there, right? You like this guy and have been trying to drop some hints, only to find out he's actually started dating someone else... not fun! It can almost feel like a break-up from your side, but he doesn't even know. We've got some tips and strategies for moving on even when it's hard.

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 4 - Should You Always Have Important Conversations in Person?

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 4 - Should You Always Have Important Conversations in Person?

December 16, 2021

Sometimes it's easier to remember everything you want to say if you write it down first, or you can talk without someone else sitting there waiting to respond, but does that mean it's ok to have big, important conversations (think DTR) over text message or a voice recording app? 

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 3 - It‘s Not Halloween, but Let‘s Talk About Ghosting

12 Days of CouchCast: Day 3 - It‘s Not Halloween, but Let‘s Talk About Ghosting

December 15, 2021

This question takes a different approach to the ghosting issue... what if you you both just don't text or call after a date? Is it still ghosting? Mutual ghosting? Does that make it ok?

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