Looking For The Middle: The Christian’s Guide to Modern Dating

CouchCast: Ways to Get out of a Bad 1st Date

Stuck on a super awkward first date with no end in sight? We've got you covered! Several ways to get out of the date and not embarrass anyone... and some of them might not be what you would expect!

An Open Letter to the Church on Singleness

Whew! Y'all, we're getting all our words out this week! We have compiled our thoughts on all (or almost all) of the things we wish the church knew about being single, the things we wish the church did better, and the things we so appreciate that the church does well.

Men Tell All! An Interview with Jared

In this Men Tell All episode, we interviewed Kristen's boss, Jared. He is a great godly husband and father who brings a great variety of perspective to this series. We ask him some of our tried and true questions as well as some new and different ones. It was a great discussion and we learned a lot!!

Backstage Pass: What Things are Girls Willing to Let Go Of?

This is a great question from one of our guy listeners! "What things are on your list of what you're looking for that you aren't willing to let go of?". We talk about the things that would be our absolute deal breakers and which things are ones that we can let go of. 

Lies We Believe About Dating

If you're anything like the two of us, you've believed all of these lies about dating at one point or another. Whether it's something you told yourself or something someone else said. We are drawing on our experience, both past and present, battling these lies as we help you think about them biblically. "Marriage will fix everything", "I can fix him", "It'll be different this time" and more!

Biggest Insecurities Going into a Date

We asked! You answered! This episode is entirely inspired by your answers to our question over on Instagram about what your biggest insecurities were going into a date. Such great responses and we're going to tackle them together!

CouchCast: Should I be Worried if My Boyfriend Cheated in His Last Relationship?

Great listener question today! We're looking at some of the things to consider, questions to ask, and decisions to make when faced with this tough situation.

Preferences, Obstacles, and Red Flags... Oh My!

If you're anything like us, you struggle to figure out which "bucket" to put things into too... preference, obstacle, or red flag. You've probably asked yourself "Am I making a bigger deal out of this preference than I should?" "Am I downplaying red flags?" "What should even be a red flag?" Those are some things we're talking about today as we figure out what should go where when you're getting to know someone.

Is There Something Wrong With Me?

If we're honest, we've all asked ourselves this question at one time or another when it comes to dating. Times of frustration. Times of confusion. Times of feeling alone. But, should you really even be asking this question? Today, we're going to get to the bottom of that as we look at when we're prone to asking this question, what we're thinking when we ask it, and how to combat the thought process that gets us to this point.

Backstage Pass: Should I Ask Before Kissing Her or Does It Kill the Mood?

Such a great question from one of our guy listeners! We had to bring in reinforcements for this one... Lindsay (Bethany's sister) and Lauren (Kristen's roommate) are joining us to add some more perspective to this question.

Guys, if you have any other dating questions you want answered from a female perspective, send them our way and we'll get them on the air for you!