Looking For The Middle: The Christian’s Guide to Modern Dating

What's the Point: Marriage

In today's episode, we're taking a deep dive look at the point of dating. Or, at least the 1st of 4 points we'll take a look at over the next few weeks. Today we're talking about marriage, what it looks like, what it doesn't look like, what God outlines marriage as, and how to get there. We're talking a lot about I Kissed Dating Goodbye and the courtship culture that has shaped so much of how Christians date still today.

CouchCast: Favorite Girls' Day Ideas

It's Valentines Day!! We figured it would be too late to talk about good Valentine's Day date ideas, but it's always a good day to talk about Galentine's Day! So, we're going over some of our very favorite things to do with the girls!

 

What's the Point of Dating Anyway? ...but Really.

Welcome to season 4!! We're so excited to be here and can't wait for everything we have in store for you guys this season!

Today, we are talking about the true point of dating and setting the stage for a 5 part series to kick off the season looking at some different themes in Christian dating that should be your focus. Marriage, Sanctification, Fun, Investigation, and Selflessness.

Here is the link to our February picks of the month from Christian Book: http://www.lookingforthemiddle.com/picksofthemotnth.html

CouchCast Countdown #4: Does it Matter if You Make More Money Than He Does?

This can be a very sensitive subject! We try to look at it from several different angles and understand both sides of this. Grace and sensitivity are key!

CouchCast Countdown #3: Is it Ok if One of You is More Invested in Your Relationship with God?

Today, we're answering the question of what to do if one of you is more invested in your relationship with God than the other one? Is it ok? When is it not ok? How do you have the conversation about it?

CouchCast Countdown #2: Making a Good First Impression on His Family & Friends

Oh this is a great question and such a tricky thing to figure out sometimes! Every family and friend group is different, so there will always be some variations to this, but some things are just always a good idea! Those things are what we're talking about in this CouchCast.

CouchCast Countdown #1: Compromise and Submission to Your Husband

CouchCast Countdown is here!! We're counting down to season 4 with a new CouchCast every weekday!

This question is a great one! It looks specifically, in this case, at denominational differences and which ones are ok to compromise on and which ones aren't. Also, how submission to your husband would factor into that as well.

Winter Q&A - Part 5

The final installment of our Winter Q&A series is here!

We will be back next week with our Season 4 premiere! And in the meantime, we have a CouchCast countdown coming at you for the rest of this week and next week too!

Questions for today...

1. How can you tell if Christian guys are into you or if they’re just being nice?

2. Why is it so hard to find a godly guy in the local church?

3. How do you deal with players? The guy my friend likes flirts with her but also with several other girls…

Winter Q&A - Part 4

Only 2 more Q&A episodes left! If you've got a question you'd like to have answered send us a quick email at lookingforthemiddle@gmail.com Today's questions include:

1. What if we both like each other but he doesn't want to date right now?

2. How do you navigate a fear of commitment? On the guy's part and on your part?

3. What exactly does it mean to be intentional in a relationship? What are some examples of it?

Bonus: Get to Know Your Hosts!

We get a lot of questions about our personal lives, hobbies, interests...random stuff! So, we wanted to take a few minutes and answer some of them and let you get to know us a little bet better! We did an 'All About Us' episode before we officially launched way back in 2018, but here's an updated 2020 version :)